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April 19, 2010

Fifteen Years Later

Filed under: daily ramblings — ninsianna @ 2:58 pm

 

Fifteen years ago today Oklahoma City suffered a devastating shock. I remember sitting in my chemistry classroom during lunch watching the news, in shock. One of my aunts worked in downtown OKC at that time, and she remembers feeling the entire building shake as front of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal building was demolished Timothy McVeigh’s homemade bomb. Timothy McVeigh’s name is burned in my brain. But I always have difficulty getting the name of the Federal building right. Edward R. Murrow is always the name that comes to mind first. And for a few years between now and then I actually thought it was the Edward R. Murrow Federal Building. I thought that was really quote progressive of Oklahoma City, but really not quite what one would expect.

I’ve been to the memorial site and museum – it really is worth a visit. The design of the gardens is, the layout, and the symbolic use of the numbers is fascinating. But who was Alfred P. Murrah? I decided it’s something I should know. So I went to my primary source of information: Wikipedia.

I was disappointed to discover such a short entry. Also it seems that his early life was very interesting but all wiki tells us is that he was a teenage runaway who hopped trains until he was taken in by a family in Tuttle. Next thing we know he’s worked his way through high school and college and is a lawyer, then a judge. He died in 1975, a Democratic Methodist Free Mason, who taught Sunday School. I want to know why he ran away from Tishomengo? Why Tuttle? While we learn he earned his room and board by helping on the family farm in Tuttle, what kind of work did he do to pay for college? What or who inspired him to attend Law School? Maybe there’re just too few people interested. Maybe too many people are distracted by the tragedy of his namesake building, that they never think to look into the man’s life. Perhaps I should go find these answers and flesh out his wiki entry.

 

But to keep with the theme of the day, I’ll share a story about the Oklahoma City bombing that’s always stuck with me. This is the story my aunt told me about a friend of hers.

On April 19, 1995 at about 9 am “Alice” was sitting at her desk on the third floor of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal building. Suddenly a fan, or breeze, or the hand of fate blew a paper onto the floor where it landed on the other side of her desk. She stood up and walked around to retrieve the paper, when she felt what seemed to be an earthquake. The “tremor” literally brought her to her knees. As she shakily stood back up, she peered over her desk to see dust and crumbling rubble. Where her chair had been, where she had just been sitting, there was nothing.

April 16, 2010

A Moose in My Hoose

Filed under: daily ramblings — ninsianna @ 1:21 pm

It’s about that time again. That’s right, fundraiser time for KERA radio. Today they ran the Power Hour all morning until 1:00. Power Hours that go on for 9+ hours are Power Days. I’m really not looking forward to the fundraising all next week. It’ll make for some really quite days at work, since I almost exclusively listen to KERA, but tire quickly of pledge drive talk. Since I can’t really surf the web at work, and don’t watch TV news or read print newspapers, KERA is pretty much my sole source of news and events. (And in case you’re wondering, yes, I am a paying member). I do occasionally take a quick peak onto the NPR or KERA website for further elaboration on radio stories. I also consider them to be a pretty neutral news source; they seem to be pretty fair minded. Of course that may be my own personal bias. As my husband is fond of saying, NPR is too conservative for me. So, since it seems to me to express opinions both more conservative and liberal than mine, they must be unbiased, right?

So – we’ve all heard about all the earthquakes that seem to be breaking out all over the world lately. One is bound to wonder if we really are having an unusual outbreak of earthquakes, or if it’s just a result of the speed at which news travels in our new connected world. So I asked NPR. And I got my answer. Evidently we have had more earthquakes than one would normally expect to have happened in a four-month period, but not unusually so, well within the normal range of possibilities. In a year one would expect our earth to experience nearly 150 magnitude 6 – 7 earthquakes. Basically we’re getting earthquakes in more densely populated areas, causing more damage, and more to report on. I’ve copied the text from the brief article below:

 

From: http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=125991738

The magnitude 6.9 quake Wednesday hit southwest China’s Qinghai province, in a sparsely populated, mountainous area. Nearly 600 people were killed and thousands were injured or missing. While it marks yet another high-profile, destructive quake this year, scientists say these quakes aren’t above average in strength or frequency. Unfortunately, they just seem to be striking more populated areas.

Scientists have analyzed this year’s high-magnitude earthquakes — in Haiti, Chile, Mexico, Indonesia and elsewhere — looking for any unusual patterns. So far, they’ve found none.

“We’ve had six [magnitude 7 earthquakes] this year, and that’s within the range of variation we expect,” says Andrew Michael, a researcher with the U.S. Geological Survey in Menlo Park, Calif.

Earthquakes are actually pretty common; the USGS estimates that several million quakes strike the Earth each year. But many go undetected because they hit remote areas or have very small magnitudes. It’s the ones that hit more populated areas — like many of this year’s big quakes — that get lots of attention. But even those aren’t uncommon.

On average, there are 17 magnitude 7 quakes around the world each year, and an additional 130 in the magnitude 6 range. That would be one quake every 2 1/2 days if they fell evenly spread on the calendar. So while this year’s spate of seismic activity actually isn’t out of the ordinary, the USGS researcher in California analyzed the data, running various models comparing this year’s high-magnitude quakes with the previous 100 years.

“It’s definitely more than most four-month periods, but things are not always exactly at the average,” Michael says. “This is within what we expect variations to be from random models of earthquake occurrence.”

And what’s happened so far this year is no indicator of what’s to come, he says. “It doesn’t tell us more about the future any more than [the idea that] if someone wins the lottery, you should go to the same store and buy a ticket there.”

What might be easier to predict these days is which areas are most at risk of devastation if — or when — an earthquake does strike.

“What really worries seismologists is that the rapid urbanization of a lot of the world is clustering people together in poorly constructed buildings,” Michael says. “There are a lot of improvised buildings being built, not engineered, creating a very vulnerable situation.”

That’s evident in early reports from the scene of Wednesday’s quake in China: In Yushu town, for example, 85 percent of the buildings — many made of mud and wood — reportedly had collapsed.

 

So there you go: Lots of earthquakes where lots of people live and work in shoddy buildings leads to lots of news stories.

So while I do get my news from KERA/NPR, I think I get most of it on accident and through osmosis, I mostly listen to it for entertainment value. What got me listening to KERA to begin with was “Everything you ever wanted to know.” It’s a Friday call in show, where people from the metroplex call in, ask questions, and other folks call in with answers. It’s on every Friday during lunch. I used to spend my lunches sitting in my car listening to the show and eating fast food. Now I listen and eat at my desk most of the time. Fridays really are my favorite days for the KERA radio shows. After “Everything…” is Way With Words. On this show people call or write in about their question related to word usage, grammar, pronunciation, origin, or anything to do with the English language. Today someone called in to get clarification between supposedly and supposably. My first thought (also confirmed by my spell checker) is that supposably isn’t even a word, it’s just a mispronunciation of supposedly. But it is in fact the adverb of supposable. However, it’s almost never used correctly. According to Grant Barrett (one of hosts of the show), supposably is far more theoretical and philosophical than supposedly, but still a valid word.

The best call in today though, was a man calling about a story his friend in Canada had told him. His friend had come home to find a “moose” in his kitchen. When asked what he did about the animal in his kitchen, the friend said he took a broom and swept it into a paper bag and threw it out. The man said, “Oh, you had a mouse in your house?” “That’s what I said,” the friend replied. “I had a moose in my hoose.”

April 13, 2010

Family Planning

Filed under: daily ramblings, To Do, Family — ninsianna @ 2:15 pm

About once a year my mom and/or my aunt and her daughters come down to Dallas to visit. This year it looks like there will be two trips. My mom is coming down for Mothers’ Day weekend, then may aunt and cousins will come down with her again in early June. Since their visits are so infrequent, I try to always do something new with them. With so much to do in the metroplex, there’s really no excuse. It’s just a matter of deciding what to do, that most everyone will enjoy without exhausting them. Last time they came down we went out to the Stockyards then my cousins and I went to Billy Bob’s, followed by Cowboys Arlington. That night ended with a dislocated thumb on my part. Good times indeed.

The trick is balancing the preferences of my near agoraphobic aunt and her co-dependent daughter, with those of her youthful party-girl daughter, and adventurous yet frugal oldest daughter and my unpredictable mother. I also have to take into account the cost of the trip for them, so I usually try to take advantage of as many free or low cost activities as possible. One thing they all seem to really enjoy is riding the TRE. So the weekend usually involves at least one ride into downtown Dallas or Fort Worth.

Like I said, this year, my mom is coming down by herself for Mothers’ Day weekend. She’s taking the Heartland Flyer from OKC to Fort Worth on Friday. Since I work on the edge of Dallas/Irving/Grand Prairie, and she arrives in Fort Worth around 1, I’ve asked her to hop on the TRE to the South Irving Station, where I can pick her up on my way home from work. Driving into Fort Worth on a Friday afternoon is not an adventure I want to tackle if I can at all avoid it.

So, after I pick her up, and get her all settled in (either in the Squid’s room, since she’s visiting her own mother for the weekend, or at a nearby hotel), we’re going to the races at Lonestar Park. It’s a party at the park night, meaning that after the races, a local cover band will play. That Friday it’s Hard Night’s Day, a Beatles tribute band. Mom is very excited. So am I.

Saturday we’re going to Scarborough Faire. If things go well Friday it will be a late night, so I expect we’ll sleep in a bit on Saturday. The plan is to get to Scarborough in time for a late lunch. I can’t imagine we’ll be there for more than 4 hours. So if we get out of there by 5:30 at the latest, we’ll plan on a late dinner at the Clay Pit in Addison. I say late dinner, because we’ll want to go home first and get cleaned up. Scarborough is about 45 minutes south of our place, and Addison is about 45 minutes north. So we’ll be driving quite a bit on Saturday.

Mom has to be back in Fort Worth by 4:30 on Sunday in order to catch the 5:30 train. So I thought we’d have an early-ish lunch around 11 at La Madeleine (probably Arlington Parks Mall area), then head up to the Sam Moon in North Fort Worth for some shopping. That should give us plenty of time to shop before I take Mom back downtown to the train station.

 

So that’s the plan for Mothers’ Day weekend. Easy enough since I only have to entertain my mother. Next I have to plan for the big Girls Weekend when the whole crew comes down…

April 12, 2010

Manic Monday

Filed under: daily ramblings, To Do, Weekend Review — ninsianna @ 10:38 am

I’ve been feeling at a loss for my blog topics lately. So this time I’ll just recount the weekend then plan out the week.

 

Friday I was supposed to go to a birthday party of a friend that was to include dinner, lesbian bar, and a stripper. By about 7 pm I had decided to flake. I was tired, and had a lot more planned for the weekend. Plus my stomach hasn’t exactly been cooperating with me much lately. I feel like I suffer from a stomach ache at least briefly almost every day. Sometimes it goes on longer. So instead, Phlome and the Squid rented 2012, we ate popcorn and stared in awe at the indestructibility of limos, RVs, single engine jets, and John Cusack.

Saturday Phlome and the Squid ran errands while I did a couple loads of laundry and finished watching the Firefly series (again). Then Saturday night we went to another friend’s birthday party at Excuses with intentions of staying out long enough to get in line to watch the Irving/Dallas stadium implosion. We stayed up late enough, but when we drove by the stadium, we decided that it wasn’t worth waiting in line for a chance to get in, when home and a warm comfy bed were so nearby. Yeah folks – we’re real party animals.

Sunday was our last softball practice of the season, followed by linner (lunch/dinner) at pizza hut. Then I watched Serenity. I am now well prepped for our Serenity role playing game nights out at zero/elanna’s starting next week. We had planned to go see Clash of the Titans, but alas it will have to wait for another weekend.

This week is looking to be pretty busy:

Tonight and Wednesday I have Lollies Rehearsal from 7:30 – 10

Thursday is our last scheduled season game, except for one rainout make-up game scheduled in two weeks. We really need to win this game. If we can win out the last two games we make it into the finals. Which I think just means we get a free t-shirt.

Friday night is the first night of the Lollies shows for April at the Pocket Sandwich Theater. Before the show we may take the Squid out for dinner to celebrate her new drivers license.

Saturday we’re going with a good size group of friends to Scarborough Faire. Then Saturday night I have the 2nd night of the Lollies at the Pocket.

I hope I don’t have anything going on Sunday other than a possible viewing of Clash of the Titans. I’d really like to just rest on Sunday. Saturday’s gonna be a long day.

April 9, 2010

Time and Space

Filed under: Uncategorized — ninsianna @ 3:15 pm

Ok - so that last post was pretty pathetic. Here’s some rambling with a little more substance, though I make no promises as to the substance of its content.

I blame facebook and twitter on my short posts. I tend to think in short phrases or paragraphs anymore.

Today is a sunny Friday and half the facebook posts seem to revolve around porches and alcohol. I’m jealous. I have to be here until 5. There’s a fly in the window here buzzing and is very annoying.

Ok – back to the post.

On slow days like this I tend to spend a lot of my time on the internet. In fact most of my time on the internet is spent between 8 and 5. There’s an inherent problem with this. At work my internet usage is not only monitored for content, but also for amount of time spent on the internet. One time I got hit for 6 hours. Over the course of the 45 hours a week I am at work, I was on the web for a total of 6 hours. That’s barely more than lunch breaks. Anyway. So – I had to find a way around the system. Can’t let the man get me down. So I surf the interwebs on my phone now. Being that I have a lot of slow days, and I tend to spend a big chunk of my lunches online, I usually hit the end of the internet at least once a week. If I’m lucky. More than likely it’s a couple times a week. Fortunately for me, the internet, like the universe, is ever expanding. Unfortunately I evidently live on the fringes so I’m constantly bumping into the outside edges. That’s really not as interesting as it sounds. I don’t really spend that much time on “fringe” internet sites.

I only have a few sites I can get to easily from my phone. Myspace is not one of those. For a site that’s supposed to be so plugged into the youthful generation it’s got a crap mobile interface, and their mobile app is even worse. So for shits and giggles here’s a list of sites I check at least a few times a week:

 

  • Facebook.com
  • Kuvaton.com
  • Failblog.com
  • Failbooking.com
  • Cracked.com
  • Postsecret.blogspot.com (only updated once a week – so only visited on Sundays)
  • Slate.com
  • ECFans.com/forums
  • Weather.com
  • Irvingsoftball.com

Change is good, even when temporary

Filed under: daily ramblings — ninsianna @ 1:45 pm

Today I’m working downstairs in an office just off the break room at work. It’s a good thing. My office shares a wall with the mechanical room that houses all the equipment that controls the climate of the entire building. Since I moved in last fall, my office has had a gentle vibration to it. Any cup of water set down in my office has that constant ripple in it which we all remember from Jurassic Park. Starting Wednesday, workers have been going in and out of the training room that my office is connected to. Today when I went upstairs to get a couple things out of my office, there were wood planks on the floor, and caution tape on the windows. Monday is when the fun really starts, though. The contractors had the option of bringing the new equipment in piece by piece and up the stairs, or using a crane and bringing it in through the second story windows. They opted for crane and windows. They’re taking out two floor-to-ceiling windows to bring in all the equipment. Some of you may remember that my office is actually relatively new. They completed it and the attached training room last fall. This week and next they’re ripping about a quarter of it up again.

April 7, 2010

Truth

Filed under: Love/Romance — ninsianna @ 8:21 pm

There’s a little article on Cracked this week that all single guys really need to read. Especially all of you nice guys out there who feel like only the assholes are getting the chicks. It’s true, and cracked cites some scientific studies that prove it. You can read the entire article here.

But in summary here’s the list (with minimal explanation):
- If she’s hot enough, you’re gonna sound dumb when you talk to her. Looking at hot women makes men dumb.
- Don’t show too much interest in her. You want to be available but seem unavailable to her.
- Unless you KNOW (as in you have unbiased verifiable evidence) you can dance, don’t. Poor dancing = poor sex partner (the reverse is also true, so dance on John Travolta circa 1978).
- Don’t compliment her on her looks. We really do want to be appreciated for who we are, not how we look. You’re better off commenting on our hobbies.
- Nice guys finish last. It’s true, we women love the bad boys.
- Don’t be named George.

Dedication

Filed under: daily ramblings, To Do — ninsianna @ 2:44 pm

Growing up my mother always told me I could be anything I wanted to when I grew up. At one time I had plans to go into law with aspirations of becoming the first female president of the US. I was through with that plan by high school. She may have even said that I could do anything as I tried. I truly appreciate her encouragement. But there’s one key word she left out. Dedication. Sure you can try this or that, but that doesn’t mean you can do it. Writing is a prime example. I have a strong drive hidden somewhere deep inside of me to write. I don’t really want to write the great American Novel – just something that would get published. I keep starting. I’ve started a vampire novel for young adults (that was before Twilight but after Ann Rice). I’ve started to write short stories for submission to writing contests, I even tried to write the story of Phlome and I. But I just can’t finish any of them. I get caught up in the wording of this one sentence, or maybe about the history of one minor character, I just get stuck on stuff that ultimately is only a very minor part of the story I’m trying to tell. A couple weeks ago I started reading “When you are engulfed in flames,” a collection of essays by David Sedaris. While reading through it I thought, “I could do this.” It’s just blogging on paper. Right, and we see how well this blogging thing is going. So out of curiosity I went to find out what it was David Sedaris did to become a famous humorist/essayist. The answer? He met Ira Glass who liked his diary. That’s it. Ira Glass liked David Sedaris’ diary, so he brought him on This American Life. It was damn discouraging. I don’t have the luxury of hanging out in coffee houses hoping a famous NPR personality comes by and picks me out of the crowd. Which means I’ve just got to buckle down and do it. As Nike says, Just Do It! So I’m starting with getting back into the blogging thing.

I write on my blog in a different voice than I do when I decide I’m going to sit down and start writing. I start with an idea and then just go from there. Usually that one idea is about all that gets put in the daily blog. But when I’m trying to “write” I get stuck on sentence structure, word-smithing, and story order. I know, I know. I just need to sit down and start writing.

 

Maybe I should start by going through my archives and seeing if there’s anything in there I can start with and flesh out.

April 6, 2010

Thanksgiving

Filed under: daily ramblings, Confessions — ninsianna @ 4:00 pm

Yes, I know it’s April and not November. Sometimes we all start to take our lives for granted and forget how much we really do have to be thankful for. There are the big things: I’m alive, and the little things: I’ve got awesomely cool red sparkly nail polish, and all the stuff in between.

Here’s a few things I think are really worth mentioning (besides life and sparkly red nail polish):

  • I have a job, and not just a paying gig, but a job that I don’t hate. I know too many people who don’t have jobs right now. There are also people out there who have jobs that are making them miserable. But they don’t have the luxury of leaving, because in this economy you can’t just go find another job. I’ve been in that job before. I’ve driven to work crying because I hated my job so much. You can say that they should just be thankful to have a job, but when your job makes you so unhappy that it begins to affect your life outside of work, sometimes it really doesn’t feel that way. Yes, the job is providing you money to buy food. But sometimes there are days when you think you’d rather just not eat. Fortunately I am not there anymore. I have a job, that I don’t hate – it really is a lot to be thankful for.
  • I have a home.
  • I have a loving husband who always kisses me goodnight.
  • I have a caring mother I can call and just talk to about anything or nothing at all.
  • I have friends who I see every week, and others who I can just check in with every now and then.
  • I have disposable income that lets me buy little things that make me smile, like sparkly nail polish, glitter gel pens, a day at the salon, new shoes, dresses, hair accessories, fru-fru gum and so on. Maybe not all in one shopping spree, but enough to keep my smiling.

We all have the things to be thankful for that we sometimes forget to enjoy, or forget how lucky we are to have. These are only a few of mine.

 

 

April 1, 2010

Storybook Story…cont’

Filed under: Love/Romance, To Do — ninsianna @ 8:00 am

Today Phlome and I are celebrating our 4th wedding anniversary. We’re celebrating tonight by playing softball against a team we will most certainly lose too, and then coming come to move furniture around. Woo Hoo! Actually, we’re really going to celebrate tomorrow night at III Forks. But tomorrow we’re getting our ceiling repainted, so we have to move our bedroom furniture out of the bedroom.

This is actually quite a busy weekend coming up. Tomorrow a few folks from the softball team will be spending most of the day at a softball training camp, then Saturday Phlome will join in the fun at the camp. As I just mentioned, tomorrow night we have our anniversary dinner followed by a night out at The Church/Lizard Lounge. Saturday night is our big 5th annual “we got hitched” / birthday party. I think Sunday is our recovery day.

If you’re new to reading the blog, as in you weren’t reading this more than 5 years ago when I started the blog, you can read the history of how we met, and got engaged here: Storybook Story.

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